Shelley A. Sonnenberg

Author who has lost 159 pounds and written a book about it!

People All Over the World are Interested in Weight Loss! — June 28, 2015

People All Over the World are Interested in Weight Loss!

One of the most surprising things that I discovered while I was losing 159 pounds in fourteen months was finding out how interesting my weight-loss story was to people all over the world. Currently my weight loss story has traveled to twenty-six countries and I am always curious to see where it will go next! The truth is that no matter where people live, everyone wants to be healthy, more attractive and to have the opportunities that are given to people who have a slim figure. Because of this, when somebody is successful losing weight, people want to know how they did it!

This was taken shortly before I started my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at that time.
This was taken shortly before I started my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at that time.

Of course when I started my weight-loss program I didn’t have the slightest idea that anyone other than my immediate family would be interested what I was doing. I just wanted to be thin again!  However, much to my surprise, my neighbors, coworkers, friends from church and friends online became fascinated with my weight-loss journey as they saw me getting thinner.  In fact, they expressed so much interest that I have written a book that describes my personal weight-loss story and everything I did to lose the weight, so that my readers can try it. The name of the book is No Salads Required! How I Lost 159 Pounds without Salads, Celery, Sit-Ups or Surgery and How You Can Too! It will be available from Amazon.com and other stores in late summer or early fall of 2015.  The following is a quote from the book that describes where and how my story traveled:

“Well, my first eight weeks flew by fast, and I was nowhere near slowing down. Instead, I was developing a following! Some of my neighbors even started walking with me from time to time. My Chinese neighbor, Yuwen, her American husband, Joe, and Yuwen’s sister, Yufen, walked with me often. Most of the time, they would bring Joe and Yuwen’s baby daughter, Sophia, along in a stroller. This family had been doing fitness walking long before I started, but when I got to know the ladies and they saw how quickly I was losing weight, they started walking even more. As we walked together, we developed a lasting friendship. Sometimes, my parents would join us too, especially in the evening. Yuwen and Yufen eventually became so excited about my weight loss that they called their family members and friends who still live in China and told them all about it. My story had officially gone international!

As time has gone by, my story has traveled to several other countries, thanks to the enthusiasm of my neighbors. America, my neighbor from Colombia, shared my story with her family members, who still live in her home country, and Ngwashi, my neighbor from Cameroon, found my story so inspirational that when she went back to her home country to attend her brother’s wedding, she made it a point to share my story with all her friends and family. “I told everybody!” she said. She also has shared my story with people she knows who live in Zambia, the Gambia, Nigeria, Israel, and the UK.

One especially encouraging arrangement Ngwashi has is with her niece, who lives in the UK. Every day while Ngwashi is walking around our neighborhood here in Tampa, she is on the phone for an hour with her niece, who is also walking somewhere in the UK. Ngwashi says these daily phone calls are very helpful for keeping both women entertained while they walk and motivated to keep walking every day. Ngwashi also spends a second hour a day walking around our neighborhood, and she is usually on the phone with other friends and family members. She says they all refer to their daily fitness walking as “our walk to ultimate beauty.” She recently told me, “Shelley, you don’t know how many people you have inspired!” Of course, she is doing her share to inspire those people too!

When I finally shared my story on Facebook, my friends in Canada and Australia also learned about it, and later my friends who live in India learned about it too. My story went even further after I started blogging. In my blog posts I have been sharing my personal weight-loss story, giving tips on how to succeed at weight loss, and also promoting this book. Much to my delight, my blog has attracted readers from several of the countries mentioned above in addition to Ireland, France, Germany, Spain, Denmark, Slovakia, Ukraine, Latvia, Russia, South Africa, Venezuela, Singapore, Taiwan and the Philippines. When you count the United States, the story of my weight loss is now in twenty-six countries that I know of, and it’s possible that after this book is published, my story could go many other places in the future. I am excited to see where God will send it next!”

I share this information about where my story has gone not to brag about it, but to bring up the fact that people all over the world are working hard to either lose weight or maintain a healthy figure, which means none of us who are dealing with this issue should ever feel alone! Instead we can make use of the internet to stay in touch with people who are also on weight-loss journeys and share success stories that will bring each other encouragement.

It is my hope that my weight-loss story has brought encouragement to you. Now it’s your turn! Do you have an encouraging weight-loss story to share? Feel free to post it in the “comments” section and share what country you are from. I look forward to hearing from you!

The Hazards and Humor of Outdoor Exercise — June 8, 2015

The Hazards and Humor of Outdoor Exercise

I love outdoor fitness walking! There is nothing like putting on my sneakers and hitting the sidewalk on a regular basis! I also own a treadmill, and I enjoy using it, but there is something special about walking around my neighborhood in the fresh air, greeting neighbors and finding out if they are up to anything interesting. For example, I am always curious to see which houses are getting a new roof, who is having a garage sale and who is moving in or out. I also find it entertaining to see people doing unexpected things like washing their cars and mowing their lawns after dark. (Yes, my neighbors really do that!) I also enjoy seeing birds, dragonflies, butterflies, sunsets and my neighbor’s beautiful flower beds.

This photo of me was taken shortly before I started my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at the time.
This photo of me was taken shortly before I started my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at the time.

Recently, when I was in the process of losing 159 pounds, I spent a lot of time walking around outside and I kept a journal of my experiences. Since then I have taken the amusing stories from those journals and the lessons I learned during that time and put them in to a book. The title is No Salads Required! How I Lost 159 pounds without Salads, Celery, Sit-Ups or Surgery and How You Can Too! It will be available from Amazon.com and other stores in either late summer or early fall of 2015. The book also contains a step by step description of the successful weight-loss program I designed for myself, so that my readers can try it. I hope all of you find it both inspiring and helpful.

One of the nice things about fitness walking is that you can easily do it with friends and family members. Both of my parents walked with me occasionally while I was actively losing weight, and we all really enjoyed it, because we never knew what we might see. Here is a quote from chapter two of No Salads Required! concerning those walks:

“Our neighborhood is built around two ponds and a creek, and water is a major draw to many birds of various kinds. My parents and I especially enjoyed seeing the mother ducks with their little ducklings. We would see them in the ponds and the creek and occasionally walking down the sidewalk or crossing the street. Ducks always put a smile on my face, especially when they did something funny and unexpected. For example, Mom and I noticed one male and one female Mallard duck hanging around our neighbor’s yard when we were walking by. We didn’t pay much attention to them at the time, but a few minutes later, when we walked by again, we saw a freshly laid white duck egg in the gutter right in front of our neighbor’s driveway. There was no nest or anything, just an egg! “

Of course, I also had some interesting experiences when I was walking alone. Here is a story from my book regarding one of those:

“While outdoor exercise does offer the opportunity to enjoy fresh breezes, flowers, trees, and wildlife, it does occasionally come with problems. One day a buzzard pooped in my hair and I had to stop by my house and wash it out! Fortunately, I was close to home when it happened. You can bet I put that episode in my journal!”

Another hazard of walking around outside beneath the blazing Florida sun is sunburn. I have tried all different kinds of sunscreens during the intense phase of my weight-loss program when I was actively losing weight and the maintenance phase of my program that I am in now. Most of them work very well, but there is one factor that can limit their effectiveness. Me! For some reason I really struggle with getting the sunscreen evenly spread on face, neck arms and I have wound up with some very painful red patches from time to time.  The good news is that  I  am getting better at putting on sunscreen and I look forward to the day I can call myself an expert at preventing sunburn and not just an expert at using Solarcaine to treat it!

Uneven sidewalks combined with distractions can be a problem too. Early in my weight-loss program when I was just getting started with regular fitness walking in my neighborhood I was surprised by the bark of a neighbor’s dog and carelessly stepped on a part of the sidewalk that could do with some repair. The result was me falling down quite hard and skinning my knee. You can bet that only happened once! From then on I watched where I was walking no matter what else was going on.

Today, I still do lots of outdoor fitness walking as part of my ongoing program to maintain my weight and I can still honestly say that even though I have tried other forms of exercise, outdoor fitness walking is still my favorite. I especially enjoy walking around the neighborhood with one of my best friends. She lives just up the street and we make it a point to walk together whenever we can. After all, even though outdoor exercise does have a few hazards, they are definitely outweighed by the benefits!

There is No Perfect Time to Begin a Weight-Loss Program! Start Yours Today! — May 19, 2015

There is No Perfect Time to Begin a Weight-Loss Program! Start Yours Today!

Over the years I have heard numerous reasons why people are waiting to start a weight-loss program and some of the most creative ones were mine!  I was obese for 32 years before I lost 159 pounds in fourteen months and now I wonder why I waited so long! I love being at a healthy weight!

Of course, there will always be difficulties to overcome when you are starting a weight-loss program. Life is never free of problems no matter what you are involved in!  The answer is to work your way through them and to keep losing weight anyway!

This is my mother, Gail, on the left, my sister, Cherie, in the center  and me on the right. This was taken just a few months before I started losing weight. I weighed about 281 pounds.
This is my mother, Gail, on the left, my sister, Cherie, in the center and me on the right. This was taken just a few months before I started losing weight. I weighed about 281 pounds.

I think the saddest part about putting off taking the first step on a weight-loss journey is that you are also putting off the joy of reaching your goal weight. In my case, I also made my goal a lot harder to reach because during all the years I was putting off getting started I was also getting bigger! By the time I began losing weight, I was five foot two inches tall with hips that measured 5 feet around! I realize now that I waited far longer than necessary and if I could live my life over again, I would certainly would have taken my first steps a lot sooner. However, I do know the main reason I was waiting and even though it was more of an excuse than a reason, I know I am not the only person who has used it. Here it is:

 

My main reason for putting off starting a weight-loss program was that I was worrying about all the foods and relaxing activities I would have to either give up or put on the back burner in order to lose weight instead of considering the wonderful prospect of having a whole new figure and the exciting opportunities that would come with one. The good news is that once I did make weight loss my priority and started some good habits, I actually found my weight-loss journey to be a very pleasant one. I also have been successful at maintaining my new figure. All I really needed to do was just get started and keep going in the right direction!

I have shared my whole weight-loss story, including complete information about the successful program I designed for myself in an upcoming book entitled No Salads Required! How I Lost 159 Pounds without Salads, Celery, Sit-Ups or Surgery and How You Can Too! It will be available from Amazon.com and other stores at the end of summer or early fall of 2015. The following is an excerpt from chapter 5:

“I also have learned that you can’t wait for the “perfect time” to start a weight-loss program, to exercise, or to work toward any goal for that matter. Start where you are, make a list of what you can do toward that goal at the moment, and then figure out what steps you can take toward that goal in the near and distant future. This will be an ongoing list, but the most important items on it are the things you can start immediately.”

Of course, once you get going on your program, you also have to stick with it faithfully no matter what distractions or challenges pop up. I did a lot of fitness walking in my neighborhood while I was losing weight and that led to some interesting discussions with my friends who watched me walk by their houses every day. Here is another quote from that same chapter of No Salads Required!:

“When I was walking around my neighborhood, my neighbors would often ask why I was walking when it was so hot, cold, rainy, or “too nice a day to exercise.” I would always laugh and say, “If I waited for the perfect time, I would never lose any weight at all.” I realized at the beginning of my weight-loss plan that if I was going to be serious about losing all the weight, I would have to commit to eating right and exercising every day no matter what else was going on. On Easter Sunday, I took my mom and sister with me to do some walking around the neighborhood after dinner and one of my neighbors said, “Wow! You even walk on Easter?”

I said, “You bet! I do this every day!”

I do want to mention here that I did also attend church on that Easter Sunday I was referring to in the book, just like I do every week, I  enjoyed a wonderful Easter dinner with my family, and ate some delicious hard boiled Easter eggs.  I did not give up on all happiness in order to lose weight, I just made my weight-loss journey part of an ongoing happy experience!

So what do you think needs to happen before you are going to be ready to lose weight?  Are you waiting to finish college? Are you waiting to get married?  Are you waiting for your kids to grow up? Are you waiting for retirement? Are you waiting for all the problems in the world to be resolved?  Never mind all that! Start losing weight today and become the person you want to be. Then, when you reach those various stages in life you will be thinner and enjoy them more! As for solving all the problems in the world, well, weight loss won’t do much about that, but at least you will feel better while you are dealing with them. So take that first step on your journey today! An exciting future awaits!

As Time Goes By: Tips on Maintaining Your New Figure Once You Have It — April 28, 2015

As Time Goes By: Tips on Maintaining Your New Figure Once You Have It

I recently lost 159 pounds in fourteen months and I have to say it’s great to have a new figure! I feel great, have lots of energy and can wear clothing styles and sizes that I could have only dreamed of wearing just a couple years ago.  I started what I call the “intense phase” of my weight-loss program in January of 2013 and completed it in February of 2014.  From then I have been in what I refer to as the “maintenance phase.”

This picture was taken a few months prior to the start of my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at that time.
This picture was taken a few months prior to the start of my weight-loss program. I weighed 281 pounds at that time.

Maintaining a new figure once you get one can be especially challenging, because unlike the original period of time when a person is actively losing weight, which usually has a start date and an end date, maintaining your new figure is supposed to last a lifetime! Of course this means that the newly slim person needs to figure out how to live through all of life’s ups and downs and still remained reasonably disciplined where food and exercise is concerned.  So far I have done pretty well, but my journey has already had several bumps in the road and if I know anything about life I can only guess that there are more up ahead.

The good news is that there are also plenty of days in life when things are going reasonably well and if I just stick to the good habits I put in place when I was actively losing the weight I should be able keep most of the weight off all the time and also re-lose any pounds I temporarily pick up due to a problem like an illness or injury that keeps me from exercising for a short while. I did have a couple of such situations already in the last few months and I am happy to say that I am feeling fit and fine and am back to my exercise program full blast.

Another type of problem that arises from time to time on a maintenance program is the temptation to overeat due to emotionally charged events that can arise in one’s life. I find the best way to deal with these things is to turn to God, friends and family instead of the refrigerator! One of the nice things about modern technology is that almost everyone we know can be reached by phone or social media even if they are physically far away. There are few things as comforting as talking to somebody who loves you and is willing to stand by you no matter what problems you are facing! Sometimes I still catch myself eating when I should be praying or phoning somebody, but I have gotten a whole lot better in this department and it’s my goal to someday master that completely!

Social eating can also be really challenging when a person is trying to maintain a figure because sooner or later almost everyone finds themselves at a wedding, birthday party or holiday event where cake and other special foods are being served and it’s both pleasant and polite to eat some of it. Do you want my advice on how to handle that situation? I say, “Go to the event, eat the food and enjoy yourself!” Of course I would also suggest that you use some common sense about how much you eat of everything, but if the only time you eat  high-calorie items is when you attend a special event like a wedding you probably are not going to gain so much weight that you can’t easily re-lose it once the day is over. Of course, if you are a busy and successful professional wedding planner and eat wedding cake at every wedding you plan for somebody, you may run into some difficulties, but for everyone else the occasional sweet treat at a special event is nothing to worry about.

I have also learned that exercising regularly is extremely helpful when it comes to keeping the weight off.  Now, I understand that every person reading this has their own situation to consider, but in my case I have found that if I don’t schedule doing an exercise I enjoy almost every day, I am going to start gaining weight again. I am 5’2” with very tiny bones and my natural metabolism is extremely slow. In order to kick my body into high enough gear to stay in shape I need to exercise at least a couple hours most days.  On the other hand, I have a couple friends who very seldom exercise and they never gain an ounce. This does not seem fair, but it’s the way it is! Someday when I get to heaven I hope to ask God about why he made people so different in this regard, but for the time being I find it better to stop wondering about things like that and just get moving!

Fortunately, I have discovered there are several exercises I really enjoy. My favorite is fitness walking. I do it with a friend whenever I can, but I also walk alone outside or on my treadmill. There is also an exercise bike in our house that I have just started riding on a regular basis and I enjoy using that too. My secret for enjoying both of those machines is that I never get on either one without bringing along my little CD player that also has a radio in it. I love playing music while I exercise, because it not only makes the time go by fast, but it also can inspire me to exercise more enthusiastically. This is especially true when I am on the exercise bike. Fast music really helps me move my feet!

I also have a gym membership and I enjoy going down to the gym and lifting weights once in a while. My goal is to go down there a little more, but I am still figuring out how to work that into my busy schedule. When I figure that out I will tell you all about it in a future post! Meanwhile, I am happy to say that it looks like “the new me” is here to stay!

I have found the whole process of transformation from my initial weight-loss to my current maintenance program to be much more fun than I ever thought possible during the 32 years that I struggled with obesity. I wish I had started this program a whole lot sooner! Of course, one of the reasons I have been having such a good time was that I designed my own weight-loss plan with the intent of enjoying it. This was especially important during the first thirteen months when I was losing the weight initially.  I ate only healthy foods that I wanted to eat and did only exercise that I liked to do.  I share my whole program in my upcoming book, No Salads Required! How I Lost 159 Pounds Without Salads, Celery, Sit-Ups or Surgery and How You Can Too! This book contains my personal story, lists of recommended foods, 30 suggested meal combinations, insights on how to succeed, poetry just for fun and much more! You will be able to order this book from Amazon.com and other stores starting in either late August or early September of 2015.